RECOGNIZING REGRETS AND MOVING ON

Painful endings can be tough on the heart and soul. Break-ups, lay-offs, sudden losses, or unexpected life changes can throw us off center and make us feel unsure about ourselves and our future. When someone or something pulls the rug out from under you, you may find yourself drowning in a caldron of emotions, anything from grief and remorse to anger, fear, or blame.

Whether you’ve experienced a recent loss or are struggling with an ending you’ve never come to terms with, you can move forward more quickly by finding effective ways to release regrets and uncover the hidden gift that the ending always brings. :)))

Take A Moment For Your Self

As soon as you wake up, it begins.You have meals to make, prepare to dress, and a to-do list that never ends. Even your phone is delivering calls, text messages, emails and “Angry Birds” that keep pulling on you for attention. Does this merry-go-round world ever stop?

Here’s the good news: your life may not slow down, but you can. Moments to refresh and recharge are all around you. From the busy mom to the over-worked executive, everyone can take advantage of these bright morning, pray and smile :) to bring more peace into your day.

MOVIE WATCH>>>THE VOW

More than any other attribute, memory is what defines our identity and our connections to each other.  when a young woman’s traumatic brain injury erases her memory not just of having married her husband but even of having met him, both of them face daunting challenges about who they are and what they can be to each other.
The first time was so easy.  Leo (Channing Tatum) sees Paige (Rachel McAdams), a free-spirited art student, and they are immediately drawn to each other.  It was just two weeks later, we will learn, when she first said, almost to herself, that she loved him.  They had a quirky-cute wedding at the Chicago Art Institute (near the Seurat painting Ferris Bueller visited on his day off) with their quirky-cute friends and their vows written on the menus of their favorite little coffee shop (Cafe Mnemonic, a bit of memory foreshadowing).  They love, love, love each other until their car is hit by a snow plow and she goes through the windshield.  When she wakes up from a chemically-induced coma, she thinks Leo is a doctor.  She has no memory of him or of the past five years.  She thinks she is still in law school and engaged to Jeremy (Scott Speedman).  She can’t figure out why her hair is so unstyled or how she got a tattoo.  Leo has to try to make her fall in love with him all over again, and this time it will take much longer...(sigh)

It is inspired by the true story of Kim and Krickett Carpenter, who wrote a book about about their experience but the marketing is intended to tie it to the stars’ previous appearances in Nicholas Sparks movies.  It does have Sparks-ian themes of love and loss and it has a gooey layer of Hollywood candy topping, but it is a bit sharper and less sudsy than Sparks movies like “The Notebook” and “Dear John.”  Leo and Paige and their friends all so quirky-cute they might be Shields and Yarnell performing in “Godspell.” The further it departs from the real story, jettisoning the importance of the couple’s faith and some of messiness of her recovery and throwing in a tired twist with Paige’s wealthy, uptight, controlling family, the further it gets from what does work in the movie, the palpable tenderness and devotion of Leo and the wrenching challenge of trying to reconnect with Paige as her uncertainty about who she is makes her retreat.  The great philosophy professor Stanley Cavell has written about the enduring appeal of the “comedies of remarriage,” movies that are not about falling in love but about re-falling.  There is something very captivating about the idea of someone who knows us and is willing to fall in love with us anyway.:)))<3

Fix things up now..going to school... see yah later mwuahtsuup!! Watch it guys ;)

new lovin love...

sooo cool haha!! loving this new things im getting into:)...the world of lights and art.

all day there's nothing that's in my thoughts...photo's lights lens cameras haha thats it...maybe tomorrow i could eat,sleep and eat photography lolz:DD...it was'nt always like this before but its great cause it turns my life back again to normal:) yeah i feel good;)if my physician will give me prescription he will let me have a dose of photos hahaha...learning the tricks,lights,lens and everything is fun. I would call it an excellent lifestyle :) for me i'd guess.

and my first assignment is nature photos...got to capture some now :))

registered here..hmmmnn there's no harm in trying...making money while viewing and clicking ads

meeeeehhhh actually:D

three words,eight letters...say it and i'm yours haha :DD just tempting you to utter these lines;)...hmmnn so im starting a makeover, starting first to the fashion...
fashions are important part of our lives. its always good to look best :)right?
argh!!! feeling hungry again:/ i can smell mum's cookin on the kitchen..she's going to bring that stuff to the farm later....hmmmnn i smell a yummy lamb chops with mint jelly tssskkk makes my tummy become more angry:/
oohh im lost...haha!!! well its heart day :D but i dont have any dates haha!! no boyfriend to ask me out for a dinner, no one will give a chocolates,flowers and sweet notes haiszt :( hhhmmmnnn gonna date myself haha here in this four corner room :)) with my laptop and musics haha that sounds nice :D
haha love is in the air and all the sides and center of the world :D and i love myself haha!!! gonna say happy valentines to you mwuaahh :*

why not go and try this for free? lolz :DD there's no harm in trying...been buying items here for a less price:))

the dawn :)

i woke up 4:00 am feelin empty...turn on laptop and listen to some acoustic music... i remember yesterday was the start of being me again,, hmmnn as what i have posted on my facebooks wall that im opening my heart to love again:).. i will let love into my life! haha so stupid getting caught up in fairy tales like looking for a prince lols:DD who would have think about it at my age now,,yesss kids do haha but im already in young adult stage:)
yeah you'll never find a prince :)... just be open to love,,knowing that there's no perfect relationship:) yeah i have fallen so may times tsskkk! but this last was the worst that it hurts me too much! i still believe that happy endings exist..everybody experienced what i have experience, yeah i got my heart broke..not only me but all does,,we all do :) right? just believe,,believe that someday i will be like the ending of some fairytales stating that "happily ever after" i know i will ...:)) just gonna turn the pages now, and start again a new chapter...hmmnnn feelin sleepy again hehehe,, :Zzzzzz....


this music makes me feel sleepy hehe got to take a nap again mwuaahh :)

back for so long...

blogging again :)

yeah...im back again here and blogging!! i was gone for almost 2 years time, been busy with nonsense things that just leads and gives me nothing but pain,troubles,tears and bad luck:/
well enough of that stuff again...so here i'am again tryin to get back and put myself back..

i was just lying down in cradle,and something comes up to my mind...so i came here again refreshing my bloggers page which i have abandoned for a years:(( im sorry for that, but im going to make it up haha :D...

so lets bring it on now 2012 :))

its a brand new,better me----guaranteed :DD haha


thats all for now, i'll be back later on,,got so many things to blogs hehe

me just me and me..

All my life I had been looking for something, and everywhere I turned someone tried to tell me what it was. I accepted their answers too, though they were often in contradiction and even self-contradictory. I was naïve. I was looking for myself and asking everyone except myself questions which I, and only I, could answer. It took me a long time and much painful boomeranging of my expectations to achieve a realization everyone else appears to have been born with: that I am nobody but myself.

“Be yourself” is about the worst advice you can give some people.Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind. as what i have read to the book of dr.suees

To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.

oh what a day....

hmmnnn kinda noisy here... very tiring yet im enjoying and having fun with some people here!
having good food,drinks and friends around! im just sitting here creating my new blog while they are enjoying the songs and games. its a my brother's co-nurse bday and they are celebrating here in our home....
my little cutie is enjoying the company too hehe! its getting dark and they are getting crazy too haha
thats the alcohols effect! nyaaaaaahhh! anyways im starving na hehehe!
la pa ma-post na iba hehehe

wow im starting my blogs hehehe!!! i dont what should i post now... my mind is blank:|. its cold and i think that my mind is frozen too haha! well anyway someone special told me to create a blog... where i could put all i want to say and all thats on my mind...all i feel and etc...though its sad,happy or just like now i dont know what to write hehehehe!!! hmmmnnnn till here na lang muna kinda sleepy ei :Zzzzzzzzz... mwuuaaah